Sunday, June 8, 2008

Reminder of our self Worth!

Reminder of our self Worth!


In a brief conversation, a man asked a
woman he was pursuing the question
'What kind of man are you looking
for?'

She sat quietly for a moment before
looking him in the eye & asking,
'Do you really want to know?'

Reluctantly, he said, 'Yes.


She began to expound, 'As a woman
in this day & age, I am in a position to
ask a man what can he do for me,
that I can't do for myself.


I pay my own bills.

I take care of my household without the
help of any man... or woman for that
matter.


I am in the position to ask,
'What can you bring to
the table?'

The man looked at her.

Clearly he thought that she was
referring to money.


She quickly corrected his thought
& stated, 'I am not referring to
money.


'I need something
more.


I need a man who
is striving for perfection
in every aspect of life.


'He sat back in his chair,
folded his arms, & asked her to
explain.


She said, 'I am looking for someone who
is striving for perfection mentally because
I need conversation & mental stimulation.


I don't need a simple-minded man.


I am looking for someone who is striving
for perfection spiritually because I don't
need to be unequally yoked...believers
mixed with unbelievers is a recipe for
disaster.


I need a man who is striving for
perfection financially because
I don't need a financial
burden.


I am looking for someone who is
sensitive enough to understand
what I go through as a woman,
but strong enough to keep
me grounded.


I am looking for someone who has
integrity in dealing with relationships -
lies and game playing are not my
idea of a strong man.


I am looking for someone who I can respect.

In order to be submissive, I must respect him.


I cannot be submissive to a man
who isn't taking care of his business.


I have no problem being submissive....
he just has to be worthy.


God made woman to be a helpmate
for man.


I can't help a man if he
can't help himself.


When she finished her spill,
she looked at him.


He sat there with a puzzled look on his
face. He said, 'You are asking a lot.


She replied, 'I'm worth a lot.


Send this to every woman who's
worth a lot.... and every man
who has the brains to
understand

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