Soulmates... Please Read

In our quest for happiness we must be sure that we don't settle for a
playmate when God has a Soul mate waiting for us. Sometimes this is a
hard distinction to make. Playmates are tricky. They are so much fun to
be with that even the smartest of us will be fooled into thinking this
has to be our Soul mate. Worse yet too many of us attempt to make a soul
mate out of a Playmate.

The danger of this is that later, after years of playing, we will meet
our Soul mate, but it may be too late. We may have already made a
Lifemate of our Playmate and created life-long bonds (emotional,
children, etc.).

Alternatively, we may have been hurt from playing so hard that we are in
no shape ourselves to be anyone's anything. How can we distinguish
between the One, and just another one? First, we must be open with
ourselves about who we really are and what our soul yearns for. Only you
and God know what is truly in your heart and mind.

Only you know what will make you truly happy and whole. In order to find
your Soul mate you have to know you, first. You must be willing to
listen to that inner voice. Moreover, is that voice telling you that the
nerdy person you enjoy talking and sharing your thoughts with, could be
him? What about that friend who is always willing to go the extra mile
for you when no one else will. Oh no! He's too short or too tall,
balding or too hairy, and on and on? Just too ordinary looking for me!

GUYS............

Then there's that girl who makes you feel so special when you're around
her, but she doesn't match that ideal you have conjured in your head.
She's too tall, not slender enough, not light or dark enough, not
shapely enough, not attractive enough, and on and on. She just couldn't
be for me! Therefore, what if he or she doesn't look like Shemar Moore
or Halle Berry.

Don't push away someone who is right there in your face, someone who you
think you are not good for, but you never asked them. Is the next person
going to treat you like the jewel that you are?

Not only that, his or her soul and yours will commune in ways you never
imagined possible! In order to heed that voice, we have to put on the
back burner our own superficial thinking. Could it be that your inner
desire is for a truly genuine person with a good heart? If you enjoy
playing, stay on the playground. There are plenty of Playmates out there
to occupy your time.

Nevertheless, don't spend too much time playing or you may play your
life away. Eventually the playing loses it appeal and your soul begins
to crave a deeper, more meaningful connection. Your soul begins to crave
your Soul mate.

Never make someone a priority when all you are to him or her is an
option......

A Ghetto Christmas

A Ghetto Christmas


'Twas da night befo' Christmas & all in the hood,
Not a homie was stirrin cuz it was all good.
The tube socks was hung on the window sill,
And we all had smiles up on our grill.
Mookie and BeBe was snug in the crib,
In the back bedroom, cuz that's how we live.
And Moms in her do-rag and me with my nine,
Had just gotten busy cuz my girlfriend is fine.

All of a sudden a lowrider rolled by,
Bumpin' phat beats cuz the system be fly.
I bounced to the window at a quarter pas',
'Bout ready to pop a cap in somebody's ass!

I yelled to my lady, Yo peep this!
She said, Stop frontin' & just mind yo' bidness.
I said, for real doe, come check dis out.
We weren't even buggin', no worries, no doubt.

Cuz bumpin' an thumpin' from around da way,
Was Santa, 8 reindeer and a sleigh.
Da beats was kickin', da ride was phat,
I said, "Yo red Dawg, you all that!"

He threw up a sign and yelled to his boyz,
"Ay yo, give it up, let's make some noise!"
To the top of the projects & across the strip mall,
We gots ta go, I got a booty call!"

He pulled up his ride on the top a da roof,
And sippin' on a 40, he busted a move.
I yelled up to Santa, "Yo ain't got no stack!"
He said, "Damn homie, deese projects is wack!

But don't worry black, cuz I gots da skillz,
I learnt back when I hadda pay da billz."
Out from his bag he pulled 3 small tings,
A credit card, a knife, and a bobby pin.

He slid down the fire exscape smoove as a cat,
And busted the window wit' a b-ball bat.
I said, "Whassup, Santa? Whydya bust my place?"
He said, "You best get on up out my face!"

His threads was all leatha, his chains was all gold,
His sneaks was Puma and they was 5 years old.
He dropped down the duffle, Clippers logo on the side.
Santa broke out da loot and my mouf popped open wide.

A wink of his eye and a shine off his gold toof,
He cabbage patched his way back onto the roof.
He jumped in his hooptie wit' rims made of chrome,
To tap that booty waitin' at home.

And all I heard as he cruised outta sight,
Was a loud and hearty.....
"WEEESST SIIIIDE!!!!!!"

Are You Ready for 2008???

Well since we have a couple of weeks left in the 2007 year, I wanted to say Happy Holidays to you and yours, and what are your plans for ringing in the New Year. If all goes well for me, I will be sitting in front of my TV watching Dick Clark's New Year Rocking Eve with a bottle of Duplin sitting right next to me.

Reponse to Can I.... Yes

Yes

I love the way you make me feel
As you kiss me in my secret place
Your touch and kisses is a raging fire
Deep within me
I stare into your eyes, pleading with you to devour me
inch by inch by inch
Pushing me to the edge
Of Ecstacy
My breathing is ragged
Chest bare
I wrap my legs around you
As my body becomes one with your touch
stroking me
I am loving the feeling of your hardness inside of me
Deeper and Deeper
I can hear your heartbeat
And your breath ragged
Loving your body completely
Please my king don't stop
As you send me to heights unknown
I am thankful
That my king is determined to please me
Your beautiful Nubian queen
I hear you whisper
"can I spank you?"
A devilish smile comes across my face
How can not resist a lustful spanking from you

Everyday I'm Hustling

Yah, i am pretty much singing that tune now a days. I am still working for the govt, but I have my hands in the cookie jar too. I am still the President of Karmul Online, which have now started its main site, www.karmulonline.com, and working on shoots for KiarislyThick.com (coming soon).

The third thing is I'm doing my stuff as well on the non-adult side. I have restarted my photography thing (actually I never stopped) and web design business. It is called ThundaGraphics, so it will encompass a little bit of everything.

Quote of the Day

The holy passion of Friendship is of so sweet and steady and loyal and enduring a nature that it will last through a whole lifetime, if not asked to lend money.
- Mark Twain

Redskins safety Sean Taylor dies a day after being shot

Washington Redskins safety Sean Taylor died early Tuesday, a day after the Pro Bowl player was shot at home by what police say was an intruder. He was 24.

Family friend Richard Sharpstein said Taylor's father told him the news around 5:30 a.m.

"His father called and said he was with Christ and he cried and thanked me," said Sharpstein, Taylor's former lawyer. "It's a tremendously sad and unnecessary event. He was a wonderful, humble, talented young man, and had a huge life in front of him. Obviously God had other plans."

Taylor died at Jackson Memorial Hospital, where he had been airlifted after the shooting early Monday, Sharpstein said.

Two carloads of mourners, including the athlete's father, arrived at the house Tuesday morning. They remained inside and did not speak to reporters. A single bouquet of flowers was left by a palm tree just outside a front gate. Beside the mailbox, an untouched newspaper lay with news of Taylor's shooting.

Doctors had been encouraged late Monday when Taylor squeezed a nurse's hand, according to Vinny Cerrato, the Redskins' vice president of football operations. But Sharpstein said he was told Taylor never regained consciousness after being transported to the hospital and that he wasn't sure how he had squeezed the nurse's hand.

"Maybe he was trying to say goodbye or something," Sharpstein said.

Taylor, the fifth overall pick in the 2004 NFL draft following an All-American season at the University of Miami, was shot early Monday in the upper leg, damaging the key femoral artery and causing significant blood loss.

"According to a preliminary investigation, it appears that the victim was shot inside the home by an intruder," Miami-Dade County police said in a statement. "We do not have a subject description at this time."

But police were still investigating the attack, which came just eight days after an intruder was reported at Taylor's home. Officers were sent to the home about 1:45 a.m. Monday after Taylor's girlfriend called 911.

Sharpstein said Taylor's girlfriend told him the couple was awakened by loud noises, and Taylor grabbed a machete he keeps in the bedroom for protection. Someone then broke through the bedroom door and fired two shots, one missing and one hitting Taylor, Sharpstein said. Taylor's 1-year-old daughter, Jackie, was also in the house, but neither she nor Taylor's girlfriend were injured.

Police found signs of forced entry, but have not determined if they were caused Monday, or the previous burglary.

The shooting happened in the pale yellow house he bought two years ago. Eight days before the attack someone pried open a front window, rifled through drawers and left a kitchen knife on a bed at Taylor's home, according to police.

"They're really sifting through that incident and today's incident," Miami-Dade Detective Mario Rachid said, "to see if there's any correlation."

Miami defensive back Sean Taylor (26) intercepts a pass off Ohio State quarterback Craig Krenzel during the first quarter of the Fiesta Bowl in Tempe, Ariz., in this Jan. 3, 2003 Ffile photo. Taylor, drafted by the Washington Redskins in 2004, died early Tuesday Nov. 27, 2007 at Jackson Memorial Hospital in Miami, a day after he was shot at home in Palmetto Bay, Fla., by what police say was an intruder. He was 24.


Taylor's death comes nearly a year after Broncos cornerback Darrent Williams was killed in a drive-by shooting following an argument at a Denver nightclub on Jan. 1. University of Miami defensive lineman Bryan Pata was shot to death in November 2006 several miles from Taylor's home in an unsolved killing.

Taylor starred as a running back and defensive back at Gulliver Prep in Miami. His father, Pedro Taylor, is police chief of Florida City.

A private man with a small inner circle, Taylor rarely granted interviews. But, behind the scenes, Taylor was described as personable and smart -- an emerging locker room leader.

"From the first day I met him, from then to now, it's just like night and day," Redskins receiver James Thrash said Monday. "He's really got his head on his shoulders and has been doing really well as far as just being a man. It's been awesome to see that growth."

After Taylor was drafted, problems soon began. Taylor fired his agent, then skipped part of the NFL's mandatory rookie symposium, drawing a $25,000 fine. Driving home late from a party during the season, he was pulled over and charged with drunken driving. The case was dismissed in court, but by then it had become a months-long distraction for the Redskins.

Taylor also was fined at least seven times for late hits, uniform violations and other infractions over his first three seasons, including a $17,000 penalty for spitting in the face of Tampa Bay running back Michael Pittman during a 2006 playoff game.

Meanwhile, Taylor endured a yearlong legal battle after he was accused in 2005 of brandishing a gun at a man during a fight over allegedly stolen all-terrain vehicles near Taylor's home. He eventually pleaded no contest to two misdemeanors and was sentenced to 18 months' probation.

Taylor said the end of the assault case was like "a gray cloud" being lifted. It was also around the time that his daughter was born, and teammates noticed a change.

"It's hard to expect a man to grow up overnight," said teammate and close friend Clinton Portis, who played with Taylor at Miami. "But ever since he had his child, it was like a new Sean, and everybody around here knew it. He was always smiling, always happy, always talking about his child."

On the field, Taylor's play was often erratic. Assistant coach Gregg Williams frequently called Taylor the best athlete he'd ever coached, but nearly every big play was mitigated by a blown assignment. Taylor led the NFL in missed tackles in 2006 yet made the Pro Bowl because of his reputation as one of the hardest hitters in the league.

This year, however, Taylor was allowed to play a true free safety position, using his speed and power to chase down passes and crush would-be receivers. His five interceptions tie for the league lead in the NFC, even though he missed the last two games because of a sprained knee.

"I just take this job very seriously," Taylor said in a rare group interview during training camp. "It's almost like, you play a kid's game for a king's ransom. And if you don't take it serious enough, eventually one day you're going to say, 'Oh, I could have done this, I could have done that.'

"So I just say, 'I'm healthy right now, I'm going into my fourth year, and why not do the best that I can?' And that's whatever it is, whether it's eating right or training myself right, whether it's studying harder, whatever I can do to better myself."

His hard work was well-noted.

"He loved football. He felt like that's what he was made to do," Redskins coach Joe Gibbs said. "And I think what I've noticed over the last year and a half ... is he matured. I think his baby had a huge impact on him. There was a real growing up in his life."

Karmul Online is now open :)

Karmul Online is now online! Come and check it out! It even has a interview with yours truly!

WTF?? Judge's Dismissal Of Domestic Violence Case Sparks Outcry

I am a BIG advocate for domestic violence. So this story struck me as being extremely odd.

Judge's Dismissal Of Domestic Violence Case Sparks Outcry

Victims' rights advocates are crying foul about an Anne Arundel County judge's decision in a domestic assault case.

Circuit Judge Paul Harris acquitted a man accused of striking his girlfriend three times in the face. A police officer testified to seeing the assault at a Laurel gas station. But the judge said that without the woman's testimony, he could not be sure that she hadn't consented to the attack.

At a hearing earlier this month, Harris told the prosecutor that he couldn't rule out the hypothetical possibility of sadomasochism in the case.


Harris said the jury instructions for the charges say that it must be proved that "the defendant's actions were not consented to by the victim."

The attack happened in June 2006 and prosecutors were never able to find the woman to testify.

Woman seeks rich husband, banker says "crappy" deal

NEW YORK (Reuters) - Deal or no deal? An online exchange between a woman looking for a husband who earns more than $500,000 a year and a mystery Wall Street banker, who assessed her potential for romance as a business deal, has cause quite an Internet stir.

The anonymous 25-year-old woman recently posted an ad on the free online New York community Web site Craigslist, http://newyork.craigslist.org/, appealing for advice on how to find a wealthy husband.

"I know how that sounds, but keep in mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City, so I don't think I'm overreaching at all," the woman, who described herself as "spectacularly beautiful" and "superficial," wrote.

"I dated a business man who makes average around 200 - 250. But that's where I seem to hit a roadblock. $250,000 won't get me to Central Park West," she said, asking questions like "where do rich single men hang out?"

The mystery banker, who said he fit the bill, offered the woman an analysis of her predicament, describing it as "plain and simple a crappy business deal."

"Your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity ... in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute certainty that you won't be getting any more beautiful!" the banker wrote.

"So, in economic terms you are a depreciating asset and I am an earning asset," he said. "Let me explain, you're 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next 5 years, but less so each year. Then the fade begins in earnest. By 35 stick a fork in you!"

"It doesn't make good business sense to "buy you" (which is what you're asking) so I'd rather lease," he said.

While the woman has since removed the ad from Craigslist, it -- along with the response -- has become a popular email joke that, bank JPMorgan Chase says, led to one of its bankers mistakenly being credited with writing the response.

Brian Marchiony, spokesman for JPMorgan Chase, said the banker did not write the response and that his email signature accidentally became attached to the ad and response when he forwarded it to friends and it then wound up on blogs.

Craigslist was not immediately available for comment, but a spokeswoman told The New York Times that "it does look as if the post was made sincerely."

http://news.yahoo.com/s/nm/20071010/od_nm/newyork_husband_dc;_ylt=AqXxgzwHGIX4_N9l1erhtIEuQE4F

God Lawsuit Gets Answers

God Lawsuit Gets Answers

By NATE JENKINS, AP
A legislator who filed a lawsuit against God has gotten something he might not have expected: a response.

One of two court filings from "God" came Wednesday under otherworldly circumstances, according to John Friend, clerk of the Douglas County District Court in Omaha.

"This one miraculously appeared on the counter. It just all of a sudden was here - poof!" Friend said.

State Sen. Ernie Chambers of Omaha sued God last week, seeking a permanent injunction against the Almighty for making terroristic threats, inspiring fear and causing "widespread death, destruction and terrorization of millions upon millions of the Earth's inhabitants."

Chambers, a self-proclaimed agnostic who often criticizes Christians, said his filing was triggered by a federal lawsuit he considers frivolous. He said he's trying to makes the point that anybody can sue anybody.

Not so, says "God." His response argues that the defendant is immune from some earthly laws and the court lacks jurisdiction.

It adds that blaming God for human oppression and suffering misses an important point.

"I created man and woman with free will and next to the promise of immortal life, free will is my greatest gift to you," according to the response, as read by Friend.

There was no contact information on the filing, although St. Michael the Archangel is listed as a witness, Friend said.

A second response from "God" disputing Chambers' allegations lists a phone number for a Corpus Christi law office. A message left for that office was not immediately returned Thursday.

Attempts to reach Chambers by phone and at his Capitol office Thursday were unsuccessful.

Tired

I am tired and fed up with the BS that men give to me about relationships. Either they dont know what they want, only want sex, or they want to hold on to their youth and want to play the field. To hell with that!
I am not one of your concubines. I refuse to be labeled as a 'friend with benefits' just because it suits you.

Guys ask me what I want. I tell them honestly that I am looking for a long-term relationship. I am looking for a real man that knows what he want out of life. A man that knows that he has a good thing on his arm. A man that can communicate with me on all different levels, not just on one. A man that can say 'I want you', and mean it.

In short, if you don't know what you want, then don't come and talk to me!

Only on Yahooo! Nebraska state senator sues God

Only on Yahooo!

http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/20070917/ap_on_fe_st/odd_suing_god;_ylt=ApywxVLy5p...

Nebraska state senator sues God

By NATE JENKINS, Associated Press Writer
1 hour, 11 minutes ago

LINCOLN, Neb. - The defendant in a state senator's lawsuit is accused of causing untold death and horror and threatening to cause more still. He can be sued in Douglas County, the legislator claims, because He's everywhere.


State Sen. Ernie Chambers sued God last week. Angered by another lawsuit he considers frivolous, Chambers says he's trying to make the point that anybody can file a lawsuit against anybody.

Chambers says in his lawsuit that God has made terroristic threats against the senator and his constituents, inspired fear and caused "widespread death, destruction and terrorization of millions upon millions of the Earth's inhabitants."

The Omaha senator, who skips morning prayers during the legislative session and often criticizes Christians, also says God has caused "fearsome floods ... horrendous hurricanes, terrifying tornadoes."

He's seeking a permanent injunction against the Almighty.

Chambers said the lawsuit was triggered by a federal suit filed against a judge who recently barred words such as "rape" and "victim" from a sexual assault trial.

The accuser in the criminal case, Tory Bowen, sued Lancaster District Judge Jeffre Cheuvront, claiming that he violated her free speech rights.

Chambers said Bowen's lawsuit is inappropriate because the Nebraska Supreme Court has already considered the case and federal courts follow the decisions of state supreme courts on state matters.

"This lawsuit having been filed and being of such questionable merit creates a circumstance where my lawsuit is appropriately filed," Chambers said. "People might call it frivolous but if they read it they'll see there are very serious issues I have raised."

U.S. District Judge Richard Kopf, in an order last week, expressed doubts about whether Bowen's lawsuit "has any legal basis whatsoever" and said sanctions may be imposed against Bowen and her attorneys if they fail to show cause for the lawsuit.

The Associated Press usually does not identify accusers in sex-assault cases, but Bowen has allowed her name to be used publicly because of the issue over the judge's language restrictions.

Cheuvront declared a mistrial in the sexual assault trial in July, saying pretrial publicity made it impossible to gather enough impartial jurors.

Still Working

Yeah I know....
I have a lot of irons in the fire right now. Here is a quick rundown of what I have going on....

- President of Karmul Online, so I am looking for male and female models to grace the pages of our website

- Trying to finish up a story/screenplayto turn into a movie for Karmul Online Entertainment (hellll noooo I won't be starring in it, so don't even ask!)

- Owner of Thunda Graphics, my web design, graphics, and photography company

- Finishing up the 'dating contract' for all of my applicants to fill out (LOL)

- still bitchin' about the men that don't know how to approach a woman (well not necessarily bitchin', but I still have to bring it to light)

Dating Contract

Well I just finished reading a book called "Love on the Dotted Line". In the book, a woman creates a dating contract for any potential mate to sign. The thought put the mouse on the wheel and started running. What if there is an actual contract that you can give to a guy (or a girl) dictating the rules of the relationship all the way down to what kind of sex that you can get and receive.

So I searched the world of Google and yes, there is a dating contract available for people to use! I looked over it and it was very vanilla.. very vague. So I am going to put my collective thoughts together and create a dating contract that everyone can use, and even tweak it to conform their situation.

I'll post the link to it once it is created. Give me the weekend to get a 'lil creative.

Scientist Who Tested Hubby's Undies Fired

Scientist Who Tested Hubby's Undies Fired
Woman Wanted To Know If Husband Was Cheating

POSTED: 3:00 pm EDT August 22, 2007

LANSING, Mich. -- A state forensics scientist who said she tested her husband's underwear for DNA to determine whether he was cheating on her has been fired.

Ann Chamberlain testified in a March 7 divorce hearing that she ran the test last September on the underwear of Charles Gordon Jr. Asked by his attorney what she found, she answered: "Another female. It wasn't me."

She said during another hearing that she ran the test on her own time with expired chemicals that were set to be thrown away.

The Michigan State Police, which oversees the Lansing forensics laboratory where Chamberlain worked, announced Tuesday that it had fired her effective Aug. 16 after conducting an internal investigation into violations of department administrative policy.

State police policies dealing with the care and use of property state that "department supplies, materials or equipment shall not be used for any non-duty or non-department purpose."

Chamberlain, 33, on Tuesday declined to comment immediately to The Associated Press.

An attorney for Gordon, Michael Maddaloni, said his client -- who court records show was a defensive back with the Canadian Football League from the early 1990s through 1997 -- disputed his wife's testimony that he acknowledged a sexual encounter with another woman after she found the female DNA on his underwear.

Chamberlain worked for the state police as a forensic scientist since 1999 and was interim supervisor of the biology unit in 2005, according to information posted on the Web site of Williamston-based Forensic Science Consultants Inc., where she began doing laboratory analysis last year.

She received an award for Outstanding Contribution to the Michigan State Police Biological Services in 2006 for her research and method development in embryonic/fetal DNA recovery, according to the Web site.

I'm glad these doctors dont work in the US!

JOHANNESBURG (Reuters) - A South African man shot three weeks ago was told to "walk the pain off" and is still trying to persuade hospitals to remove the bullet lodged in his side, a newspaper said Thursday.

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Three Johannesburg hospitals refused to remove the bullet for security guard Phillip Mashiane, 38, who was shot during a burglary at the property of South Africa's ambassador to the United Nations, the Star newspaper said.

The bullet passed through his elbow and entered his body just above the hip, missed his vital organs and stopped beneath the skin on the opposite side of his body, the Star said.

Mashiane told the paper he was turned away by one private hospital because he could not afford the bills while a public hospital took X-rays and kept him in for observation before patching him up and sending him home with painkillers.

When he returned a doctor told him to "walk the pain off."

Doctors at a third hospital said it could not remove the bullet because Mashiane had started treatment elsewhere.

"I want my life back. I need to work and all I ask is for them to help me," Mashiane told The Star.

South Africa is battling some of the highest rates of violent crime in the world, and its underfunded public hospitals struggle to treat all those who need healthcare.

Been down for a Min... But I'm 100%

Well I was a little under the weather for about a week but now I am back to 100%, ready to raise havoc (well not really LOL).

Be looking out for some male-bashing blogs coming up which includes:
- 10 Classic signs That you Man/Woman is Cheating
- Relationship Hell
- WTF??

But I will be also taking the pain out of it as well with things to help your relationship with your mate out. Some things have been tried and true by me or someone I know personally, and I want to share them with the world. I will not profess to be another Zane, Oprah, Dr. Phil, or anyone else for that matter, I am simply here to help out the real voluptuous divas to take your place as the woman of distinction, beauty, and grace that I know that you possess.

Until we meet again...
Peace, Love and Hair Grease
StormAndThunda

been a lil' sick

Hey there..
been a little under the weather due to a ear infection (ouch!) Hopefully I will be back to my normal self in a few days.

It's FRIIIIIIDDDDAAAAYYYY!

Well Friday is finally here! I am planning on getting my naps done this weekend so that I can be my diva self by Monday.

Is Kissing Sooooo Bad?

A friend and I was talking yesterday about the art of kissing. She then told me about a guy that she was seeing at one point that told her that he didn't kiss at all. He told her that he didn't kiss at all because it was 'too personal'. The irony was that he was more than willing to eat her out without a second thought. That didn't make sense to my friend or I. If he was more than willing to rug-munch (which I think is more personal than a kiss), why couldn't he kiss?

While we both agreed that prositutes dont kiss their johns because a kiss is intimate and personal, why does the average person not kiss? I want to hear the pros and the cons on this issue.....

Venting on DC men - Yahoo 360 Repost (with comments)

Here is a repost of my venting on DC men from Yahoo 360 and the comments that I received....

Hello to one and all! I gotta vent for a minute! Fellas, you can put your two cents spin on it. Maybe I am not seeing something.

I have had a BlackPlanet.com page for years and have came across some nice people and some fine yet stupid people. When I moved back into the DC area, my stupid people volume have tripled... YES PEOPLE, TRIPLED!

What I refer to stupid people, I refer to the men that leaves one-line notes such as "damn", "hi sexy", and my personal favorite, "when can I tap that ass?". Most of these notes gets ignored or deleted immediately after opening it, but there are times where I want to know why a person send these types of notes. The response that I got from these niglets can be placed under one word: SEX. Apparantly, these guys feel that the women on BP are an easy lay, and they dont have to use other websites like FuckMeAndLeave.com (fmandl.com) and Online Booty Call.com (OBC.com). Unfortunately for these niglets, this is grounds for a good cursing out by any sensible woman who don't want that in their lives.

The next step up is the men that want to see you 'not now, but right now'. Mind you, these guys dont know your name, never spoke to you over the phone, and may have chatted with you once or twice. They are ready to meet you (mainly at their place) without even knowing the basic information about the woman. C'mon now, think!

Now I know that there are gentlemen in this area that knows the basics and the foundation of having a fun, solid relationship or even friendship. Most of them are just trying to get another notch in their belt or sowing their royal oats. If you want respect from the queens, you have to respect yourself.

Now, the comments.....

"Some guys just never grow up. I'm sorry they can be that way, but many feel that if they keep trying they will luck up on that easy lay. That's my $.02 worth." - Sonny

"It is a main consensus among a large percentage of people on Blackplanet.com that it’s has in the latter years turned into serious “hook-up” site. There are many woman that boast how much they don’t want anything sexual and then you have those that put a lot of risqué and raunchy pictures on there page, yet they say don’t say anything sexual about these pictures and so on. Then you have those that are involved and they have breast and butt hanging out on there page, with all these vain attributes they are looking for in a guy who sends them a note. I feel a lot of guys are going to be a certain way regardless, but there are enough women that have been giving of themselves sexually that some guys are becoming more open and with the images that are displayed on there pages they feel that woman might be more open and willing to do sexual acts.

Women can’t have it both ways, you can’t have the most risqué pictures of yourself without expecting some type of sexual response. It’s sad and unfortunate, but it has to be expected. There are many guys who love sex, if they could get sex without doing anything, you could only imagine how many guys out here would stop doing a lot of the things they do for woman, just to have sex.

A lot of guys have had come across women that were open to meeting and doing various sexual things, all in the early off, with this being true, a lot of guys are going to take that and run with it, that’s why soo many guys continuously pursue woman in that fashion. Also note that many guys are trifling and are only out for themselves, that goes for guys on the street, that are very disrespectful and speak only out of the perverted little heads with feeding there sexual appetite, it’s just that simple. I don’t personally know any guys like that and I have never talked to any, so I can’t break down there exact outlook and so on.

The sad truth is there are very few true gentlemen in this area, many that claim the title, are nothing but posers that must think it starts and ends with merely opening the door for a woman, but that’s not the case. Then some only do it, to get in good with a woman, or they will only stand outside the door and hold it, if they are attracted to the woman. A lot of guys need mentors, they just have no clue of how to respect themselves and respect and treat a woman on all accounts. A true gentleman would never ask a woman to come to his place within the first 2 days of knowing her. Certain things should never be asked, then there are other things that should come later, but many guys ask all the wrong questions upfront, clearly disrespectful and showing that they care only about themselves and there wants.

There are many sites and many women that are openly about sex and hooking up, but there will always be guys that will just throw there demeaning comments and selfish wants at women, even when they don’t give off the clear vibe that she is all about sex." - Eric

Welcome to My World

This is the first for me.
I will be actually talking about my experiences in Washington, DC as a voluptuous diva. Let me give you a quick rundown on me. My name is StormAndThunda. I just moved back to the DC area last July. Yes, I'm single, and a diva in my own right. This will be my psersonal rants about the men in the DC area and the games that they play. If you come across me and act like a fool, you will get dismissed and then listed on here.