Thursday, May 28, 2009

Metro Riding

Well I ride the Metro here on a daily basis. The other morning, a young girl boarded the bus and sat across from me. Thinking nothing of it, I continued reading the Express while rocking to the Ipod. Then something force me to look over the top of my paper. She was on the phone, then I saw the tears fall. Whatever she was going through, it was affecting her a hell of a lot! The girl that was sitting next to her started moving over, like the poor girl had the H1N1. It was like she was allergic to another's suffering.

Have we become that insensitive to others?

As we got off the bus, I told her "Whatever you are going through, it will be alright". I didn't take off my Ipod to hear her words; didn't look back to see her face anymore. I simply walked away and allowed the words to seep into her brain.

What I am looking for....

I get a lot of guys that hit me up on various sites asking me why I am still single and the like. Here it is, the official version of what I am looking for:

I am looking for Mr. Right, not Mr. Right Now. Mr. Right Now is plentiful; you can find him damn near everywhere. Mr. Right is a whole another story. Mr. Right is that diamond in the rough that will satisfy me mentally, physically, and emotionally. So for now, I will wait on Mr. Right.

Sunday, May 24, 2009

WHAT A REAL MAN WOULD DO..

WHAT A REAL MAN WOULD DO..

When she walks away from you mad
[ Follow her ]

When she stare's at your mouth
[ Kiss her ]

When she pushes you or hit's you
[ Grab her and dont let go ]

When she start's cursing at you
[ Kiss her and tell her you love her ]

When she's quiet
[ Ask her whats wrong ]

When she ignore's you
[ Give her your attention ]

When she pull's away
[ Pull her back ]

When you see her at her worst
[ Tell her she's beautiful ]

When you see her start crying
[Just hold her and dont say a word ]

When you see her walking
[ Sneak up and hug her waist from behind ]

When she's scared
[ Protect her ]

When she lay's her head on your shoulder
[ Tilt her head up and kiss her ]


When she steal's your favorite hat
[ Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night]

When she tease's you
[ Tease her back and make her laugh ]

When she doesnt answer for a long time
[ reassure her that everything is okay ]

When she look's at you with doubt
[ Back yourself up ]

When she say's that she like's you
[ she really does more than you could understand ]

When she grab's at your hands
[ Hold her's and play with her fingers ]

When she bump's into you
[ bump into her back and make her laugh ]

When she tell's you a secret
[ keep it safe and untold ]

When she looks at you in your eyes
[ dont look away until she does ]

When she misses you
[ she's hurting inside ]

When you break her heart
[ the pain never really goes away ]

When she says its over
[ she still wants you to be hers ]

When she repost this bulletin
[ she wants you to read it ]


- Stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything.

- When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go

- When she says she's ok dont believe it, talk with her

- because 10 yrs later she'll remember you

- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her

- Call her before you sleep and after you wake up

- Treat her like she's all that matters to you.

- Tease her and let her tease you back.

- Stay up all night with her when she's sick.

- Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think its stupid.

- Give her the world.

- Let her wear your clothes.

- When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.

- Let her know she's important.

- Kiss her in the pouring rain.

- When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is;

"Who's ass am I kicking today baby?"

See what had happened was.....

Well I have been on and off the wagon

JUST FREAKING KIDDING!!!! LOL!!!

I have actually been working on a lot of things recently. First my addiction to work.. yeah been working real hard. Then my love life - what love life??? I haven't had a date in over a year (go figure) and no man is up to the challenge of getting to know me instead of my poontang. (I'm getting tired of the 'can I eat your pussy' routine.. It's getting old fellas!!)

However, on the good side, I have met a lot of new and interesting people from all over the DMV, and have been having fun while I am at it. I celebrated my 35th birthday last month in style and had a ball. By the time the night was through, I was good and drunk, and felt nothing.

Now I will try to blog more often on my life. It has been a roller coaster ride, and I'm trying to get off this crazy thing.

Monday, November 24, 2008

Rapper MC Breed dies at friend's home at age 37

Rapper MC Breed dies at friend's home at age 37

YPSILANTI, Mich. – It was in the gritty, blue-collar city of Flint that Eric Breed grew up amid the dimming opportunities of a declining auto industry.

That starkness was vivid in the lyrics of what would be the rapper's biggest hit, 1991's "Ain't No Future in Yo' Frontin'."

Breed, known professionally as MC Breed, died Saturday at a friend's home in Ypsilanti, about 30 miles southwest of Detroit, a Washtenaw County medical examiner's spokesman said Monday.

Toxicology reports were pending, but no foul play was suspected in the 37-year-old's death.

Breed had suffered from kidney failure, according to The Detroit News and The Flint Journal.

"More than just an artist, we mourn the loss of a beloved father, son, brother and friend," his family said in a statement. "We are thankful and blessed to have been in his presence and want him to be remembered for his creative, caring, talented and hardworking spirit."

Breed released 13 albums from 1991 to 2004, and collaborated with artists such as Tupac Shakur and Too Short.

He moved to Atlanta in the 1990s, but always identified with his tough Flint roots.

The lyrics from "Ain't No Future in Yo' Frontin'" included: "I'm from F-l-i-n-t'n. A city where pity runs low. If you ever shoot through my city, now you know. Cause we are strictly business and we also got our pride, and if you don't like it, I suggest you break wide."

The single was from his first album, "MC Breed & DFC," which sold between 2.5 million to 4 million copies.

Breed was a "musical legend of Flint," said Carter McWright, owner of local record store Music Planet.

"One thing about Breed is he had that flow, that rhythm," McWright said. "He knew how to flow with it."

Funeral arrangements were being completed Monday in Flint.

Breed is survived by three daughters and two sons; his parents; two brothers; and a sister.

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

A change is gonna come

"Oh there been times that I thought that I couldn't last for long
But now I think I'm able to carry on
It's been a long, a long time coming
But I know that a change gonna come, Oh yes it will"

-----Sam Cooke

Last night, I watched with tears welling up in my eyes as Barack Obama gave his victory speech. As I watched this moment, I thought about this historic moment and how this will impact not only the rest of the world, but my family. I thought about all of the racism that they faced in rural Virginia, the '68 riots in DC, and other situations that they had to endure. I watched this man, and my mind flashed back to the first time that I ever heard the "I Have a Dream" speech given by King.

This is a historic moment that every history book should have a chapter dedicated to. The day that Barack Obama will not only be the 44th president, but be the first black President of the United States was elected.

After the speech, I turned away briefly to answer the many IM's that was popping up on my computer screen when I heard the words "uncle tom". I turned around only to see the people on Fox News with a look of shock on their faces as they immediately dismissed the words of Ralph Nader. (I know the man is bitter) But my victory turned to anger. Our forefathers have fought for soo long for us to have the right to vote and here is this man ready to stomp on the victory of another man because he is bitter. How dare you?!?! Ralph Nader needs to crawl back under the rock that he found solace in, or the spaceship that can whisk him to his parallel universe, and get over it.

Thursday, October 23, 2008

and you thought that the American people has issues.....

Online divorcee jailed after killing virtual hubby

TOKYO – A 43-year-old Japanese woman whose sudden divorce in a virtual game world made her so angry that she killed her online husband's digital persona has been arrested on suspicion of hacking, police said Thursday.

The woman, who is jailed on suspicion of illegally accessing a computer and manipulating electronic data, used his identification and password to log onto popular interactive game "Maple Story" to carry out the virtual murder in mid-May, a police official in northern Sapporo said on condition of anonymity, citing department policy.

"I was suddenly divorced, without a word of warning. That made me so angry," the official quoted her as telling investigators and admitting the allegations.

The woman had not plotted any revenge in the real world, the official said.

She has not yet been formally charged, but if convicted could face a prison term of up to five years or a fine up to $5,000.

Players in "Maple Story" raise and manipulate digital images called "avatars" that represent themselves, while engaging in relationships, social activities and fighting against monsters and other obstacles.

The woman used login information she got from the 33-year-old office worker when their characters were happily married, and killed the character. The man complained to police when he discovered that his beloved online avatar was dead.

The woman was arrested Wednesday and was taken across the country, traveling 620 miles from her home in southern Miyazaki to be detained in Sappporo, where the man lives, the official said.

The police official said he did not know if she was married in the real world.

In recent years, virtual lives have had consequences in the real world. In August, a woman was charged in Delaware with plotting the real-life abduction of a boyfriend she met through "Second Life," another virtual interactive world.

In Tokyo, police arrested a 16-year-old boy on charges of swindling virtual currency worth $360,000 in an interactive role playing game by manipulating another player's portfolio using a stolen ID and password.

Virtual games are popular in Japan, and "Second Life" has drawn a fair number of Japanese participants. They rank third by nationality among users, after Americans and Brazilians.